Life is a reality to be experienced, not a problem to be solved.

I’ve been very quiet lately! Life is just a tad overwhelming and it’s had an impact on me being able to engage in the reflective practice of writing. I’ve been learning many lessons but sharing and articulating them has been difficult. Just to update you all a little – we celebrated my Grandfather’s 90th birthday … More Life is a reality to be experienced, not a problem to be solved.

Facing the Things Buried Within – How Our Experiences Can Help Shape Us.

Don’t cry! Don’t you dare cry! You are in a gym full of grade nine and ten students, do not let them see you cry, I thought as I looked up to see a set of concerned steely grey eyes looking at me. Slowly, I peeled my hand from my forehead and reached out to … More Facing the Things Buried Within – How Our Experiences Can Help Shape Us.

Emotional Intelligence and holding space.

One thing that I’ve noticed recently, is that my feelings have the capacity to make other people uncomfortable. I’ve had a variety of experiences around this topic – from friends completely misconstruing and misreading what I’m feeling and experiencing, to them implying that I “should” be over it by now, to completely invalidating what I’m … More Emotional Intelligence and holding space.